Apply Your Skills To Help Others

At this time, I would be willing to bet that the majority of those who read this article are doing it because they want to hypnotize those nearest and dearest to them!

Was I correct? Is this you?

Well, here is what I will show you…

Actually, not exactly.

Keep in mind that you cannot actually hypnotize anyone who is unwilling to be hypnotized, so what I am actually talking about here is helping someone to be at ease more so than anything they have previously experienced.

Then, I leave it all to you…

So, who do you really want to influence or aid?

Maybe you want to eliminate as much tension out of the busy life of your most precious loved one?

Perhaps it is something more mundane like assisting a friend to kick their nasty smoking habit?

Now, remember that maybe one in four individuals is really open to hypnosis.

Well, that shows you that there is definitely; no guarantee whatsoever that what you are attempting to do will be successful.

If it is unsuccessful, that does not necessarily mean that you lack skill or that your method is bad. It might possibly just be that the individuals are not the one in four that this will be successful for.

Look at it as an exercise, an experiment perhaps, and understand that some of it comes down to your skill and experience, but most of it is not!

The first thing to do is go back and look at some of the other articles on this website.

Do not let yourself forget what you need to do, and see whether you are able do it so that it actually works!

Incidentally, if you need a more detailed analysis of these physical methods, you can run a search in Google or Yahoo on 'hypnosis' and 'hypnotic techniques'

However, at this point, I do not imagine that you are really so worried with all of the nitty-gritty details - you just want to keep moving on with the job, right?

Alright, so here we go.

Sweep Them off Their Feet

Alright, the starting thing that you need to do if you seriously want to help your lover and your relationship with them is to get them to concede that they are totally comfortable with what they are going to experience.

Do not leave out this agreement process - pass over it and you guarantee that nothing is going to be successful, regardless of how hard you strive to make it happen!

Then, work on creating the proper atmosphere.

Turn down the lights, strike up an aromatic candle or two and turn on some romantic music.

At this point, chancing being called a sexist, I am going to use the most common scene for my example - a man wooing his lady, but, obviously, a female can also do this with her lover too.

Let her pick out a location and position that is most comfortable for her, and then put yourself in an intimate position next to her.

Suggest to your subject to relax her body, and make it a drawn out, sensuous process by getting her to consciously relax every part of her body, step by step.

Recommend that she concentrates on every specific body part as it becomes comfortable and stress-free.

Encourage her to relax her mind.

Recommend that she tries to imagine the clutter falling from her mind and that there is a pure, exuberant white light spreading upwards from her forehead to the top of her head.

Direct her breathing - tell her to take deep, easing, slow breaths.

Tell her to take slow deep breaths, and always be aware of her breaths.

Giver her instructions telling her that she must breathe in through her nose and exhale from her mouth.

Tell her that this breathing should become an easy, regular slow pattern.

Tell her that every time she exhales, it eliminates a little more of her cares and concerns from her body and soul, that all of her anxieties are falling away.

It will also help if she is able to give physical presence to her woes by visualizing a particular color to represent each concern that bothers her.

Make her envision that a warm, smooth liquid is filling her up, starting from the tips of her toes up to the top of her head, until it fully surrounds her.

Suggest that she has now lost all of her concerns and that she is filled solely with this beautiful, smooth warm liquid.

Let her linger on that notion and feeling, until she decides to leave the trance.

And after that?

At this point, this is where I am sure you discover just how good a hypnotist you really are!